Can O' Worms

For Libby: Oscar was and, I'm assuming, is 178 lbs of 26-year-old genuine Mexican with a childish streak the size of the Mississippi and some serious communication problems. He has a good heart but a possessive tendency and for some bizarre reason I couldn't tell him no. I realize I wound up with the wrong guy, and to a very extensive extent the problem was my lack of exertion of any will at all. Ugh. There's a lot more where this came from, but I need to think about it all. It's tender still, no matter what I say.